My brides. Y’all know who you are.
I fall in love with my wedding couples -it’s as simple as that. It is intensely personal, to play a role in someone’s wedding day. Time condenses and a bond is created. That’s one of my favorite things about performing weddings. Now, the very first time, I was sure a big lightning bolt with my name on it was going to fall from the sky with a booming Who Dost Thou Think Thy Art. But it didn’t happen like that. Instead, I was encompassed in such a spiritual peace and sense of rightness, that I knew I’d found my calling. And more: it wasn’t about me at all. No, not at all. But it was surely a gift for me. And that’s the way it is every time.
The folks who’ve been married here hold a dear place in my heart. And I do try to keep in touch with all my brides. So, when I got this message today, it just meant the world to me: “The hostess of my baby shower is sending out fabric to out of town friends to fill in special messages. The fabric will be made into a quilt. I’d like to have one from you.”
Oh My Goodness, and I got all misty-eyed. To continue to be a part of this couple -now this family- makes me all proud and humble at the same time! I’m sure there is a word for that. Well, HAPPY surely qualifies. What a tremendous honor, to be included in such a special way. I am so grateful.
